The first date is always an exciting event, even for confident and experienced people. Fear of making a first impression, lack of topics for conversation, problems with choosing clothes and a meeting place – all this raises a huge number of questions. How to make up your mind about a real meeting?
Make your conversations closer to reality
Do not communicate for years on social networks. Try to communicate using a webcam, you can always do this in a chat-roulette. Be sure that such a conversation will resemble a real date.
How to make up your mind about going on a first date if you are a girl
If the man himself asks you, everything is simple, because you should agree or refuse. In case of agreement, set a time. However, if you have to talk with an indecisive guy who does not know how to start an important conversation, do not be afraid to take the initiative. Just say how nice it would be to meet and walk, say that you would like to watch a certain movie in a cinema, but you have no one to go with.
How to make up your mind about a meeting if you have been talking virtually for a long time?
It is much more difficult to do it if you communicate with a webcam and correspondence for several months, you know a lot about each other, but you have not talked about the meeting. In this case, do not ask directly. Constantly hint at a meeting, say that you would like to see him. For a first date in this case, it is better to choose neutral places, for example, a cinema. So you can watch a movie and share your impressions.
Do not be afraid of failure
Even if a girl or a man refused, do not despair: they may have their own reasons, completely unrelated to you. In addition, there are a lot of people in the chats with whom you will surely find a common topics for a conversation. Just switch to another person and enjoy communication.
If you see that a person does not understand the hints or intentionally does not want to understand them, do not be afraid to ask a question directly. If the interlocutor continues to elude the answer further, do not waste time on him. It is better to date another user!
Thus, your future life may depend on the first date, therefore take this event seriously and do not be afraid to take the initiative first. Chat-roulettes allow you to set up a real meeting unobtrusively, without losing your dignity. After the interlocutor has agreed to meet with you, do not forget to ask him for a phone number, as well as discuss in detail your meeting – this will help to avoid misunderstanding. In the chat you can make an appointment not only for a serious relationship, but also arrange a pleasant meeting that will not oblige you to anything.